What Are You Willing To Do?

Compass for Navigation

In the world that we live in right now there are so many different things to get involved in. What are you willing to do for your children to succeed? As parents, it is up to us to navigate the directions of our families.  I have been in situations where I have had to tell parents that their lifestyle choices are hindering their children's success. I had to let parents know that the lifestyle that they live doesn't line up with what the expectation is for their children. So think about this parents, you want your child to be disciplined yet there are aspects of your life that you are undisciplined. You eat too much, drink too much alcohol, and party too much. You work long hours to put food on the table, yet your health is not priority. You want your child to be an outstanding student, yet at your job you slack off. Some of you want your child to be an outstanding athlete yet you feed them unhealthy foods and give them drinks that are not as healthy to fuel their systems. You let them stay up late at night instead of setting up sleep schedule for them. You want peak performance yet provide mediocre fuel.

Many parents say that they will die for their children. How about living a life of positive examples of success for your children? Your children need you alive and well, physically, mentally, and spiritually to lead them. How about you exercise, you eat healthier foods/drinks, and you keep your stress levels under control? Is this doable? Parents stop being so selfish, self-centered, and nonchalant about the issues that you have within yourself. Rise up, get the help you need, and be a better version of yourself. You can then watch how much better your children become just by being in your presence because you are the example that you want them to see and be. Our children are always watching and learning from us. Parents, please understand that your children will get encouragement and learn habits from others if you are not doing your part in raising them. They may not be getting the proper information from others so wouldn't you want to be their influence? Next time you critique your children, take a moment to reflect on your actions to see if they reflect the example/outcome you are looking for.

Our future generations of children are depending on their parents to help shape them. Let's do our job parents! Buckle up buttercup and enjoy the ride!

As parents, we must walk the walk and talk the talk. We must live it. Results do not lie and nothing great is going to come if you quit on yourself. Consistency is the key. Show up for yourself so you can show up for your child! Let's GO!!!!

Best Regards,

Coach James